Behaviour that sounds reasonable and normal isn’t called stalking.
Behaviour that sounds unreasonable and nuts is NOT the victim’s fault – the victim has nothing to do with it – but is done by someone else TO the victim.
That the victim sounds nuts when describing someone else’s unreasonable behaviour does not mean that the VICTIM is nuts. In fact, it may be carefully done and constructed to make the victim sound nuts as the victim has no other option than to describe what is really happening even if that sounds nuts.
Victims can only describe what is actually happening, without any other options, regardless of whether it makes them sound crazy or not.