I can’t help but wonder HOW MANY TIMES the victims asked for help and were dismissed.
Because would you believe someone if they tell you that:
- they were being pushed under water
- soap was squirted into their mouths
- urine was thrown at them ad over them
Father and son-in-law have just been sentenced to five years, and to pay damages to six of their victims (which is very rare and usually very modest in the Netherlands). Sadism, said the court. These are people who enjoy hurting people, said others.
People who are this controlling and sadistic often are also experts at spinning tales about the people they are abusing, which makes it even less likely that anyone will believe them.
Complaints about sadism are often ignored.
In England, many people WATCHED as they saw a radiant young woman change in front of their eyes as she became kept as a slave and inundated with sadism. She was eventually found in a cupboard, emaciated and dead.
I know very well how this works. If you dare talk about what is going on, people will experience you as unpleasant, and as making things up.
People see what is happening, because it is essentially happening in front of their eyes, they know that something is going on, they know that what is happening does not add up, yet they CHOOSE TO LOOK THE OTHER WAY and blame the victims.
Things like this can only happen with the full cooperation of people who witness it and choose to blame the victims.
Many people become abusive or controlling or sadistic when someone else depends on them and has no recourse. Never never never ask people for help (if that means that you’d then depend on them) unless you are one thousand per cent sure that they won’t abuse you. Because you might end up in an even worse situation, otherwise.
Having (mostly) been inundated with hate for two decades, I know how strongly it can affect a person, how it can change you. It does not require you to have been a mentally weak or cognitively impaired person at the start.
